Losing everything at once; do I choose my husband or my life?

I never really looked into the seriousness of that question "would you die for the one you love?" I posted a few weeks ago that my living quarters are horrid with my husband in regards to filth of apartment and extremely loud, scary upstairs tenents. Apparently the problem has become serious in regards to my health now, went to doctor yesterday and there are a lot of problems with my blood work and I've been put on several medications for panic,depression, blood count and loss of over 10 pounds. I'm deteriorating and my husband won't stay with me at my mom's until we can find another place. My condition is serious, the apartment should be condemened and people upstairs won't let me rest ever. I have to choose my husband who won't compromise with me and barley speaks to me or my health. I'm heartbroken, scared and devestated. I really dont know what to do.